I miss my ex girlfriend
I miss my ex girlfriend
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I miss my ex girlfriend |
It is a feeling that
comes back frequently after a break from which we have not yet recovered.
It is also no coincidence
that a love story has several ruptures.
It is difficult to forget
your ex, to give up, to tell yourself that everything is over and that there is
no hope.
First of all, it's normal
that you miss your ex. It is not easy to forget someone you liked even if
you drooled over it and the relationship ended badly.
Sometimes we even wonder
if it's not worse to leave on good terms because we have nothing to blame our
ex!
In short, what if you I
miss my ex girlfriend
?
You don't have 50
options: you will either decide to call him, or you will hold back.
You have an interest in
making the right choice and I will help you.
I miss my ex girlfriend: should I call him?
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I miss my ex girlfriend |
Do you need to call
back a missing ex ?
First of all, why do you
want to remember it?
Just to talk to
her? Innocently… really? Or is it an excuse to get it back?
There's nothing trivial
about calling your ex. if you try to forget it, it will ruin all the
efforts you had made so far to forget it. This will prevent you from
moving forward.
In the short term, what is
the impact of this call?
There are 2
possibilities: of I miss my ex girlfriend
1. Your call makes him
happy. He (or she) is glad you called him. In short, it will do you
good.
2. Your call doesn't make
him hot or cold. He talks to you quickly, he doesn't have time. Or
worse, he announces that he is with someone. It will depress you.
If there are things that
can hurt you as you start to recover from the breakup, you should avoid calling
him, especially if you don't really want to go back with him.
In the long term, and
even if your call goes well, what will happen? You can't forget
it. He may call you back the following week and take you by the wire in a
relationship that never had a future.
But it's so easy to fall
for a story from the past that has no future…
We always come back to
this dilemma of the short and long term choices that oppose each other.
Example: I want to lose
weight in the long term but I eat Nutella because it makes me happy in the
short term.
In the short term, it
does us good because we satisfy a desire.
In the long term, this is
a bad idea because it goes against what you want or the best decision to make.
I miss him but I don't want to come back with him
I
miss my ex girlfriend: So let me be clear: if you miss him, if you
really want to forget him, if you know it won't work with him, if you know you
might be hurt by calling him, don't call him don't and don't try to see it
again.
If you have made your ex
suffer in the past, you do not plan to come back with him but you call him to
verify that he still loves you, be nice: do not call him.
It was a technique from
one of my ex and great love story. She called me every year to remind me,
air of nothing, just to check if I answered present.
I missed her. I
never called him. On the other hand, I was unable to resist him because I
was still in love.
Sometimes we went out
together, sometimes not, but there was always this permanent link that
prevented me from moving forward. If she had been less selfish, she would
have given me time to rebuild myself.
So don't be
selfish. Your call will prevent it from moving forward and rebuilding
itself.
I miss him and I want to come back with him
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I miss my ex girlfriend |
On the other hand, if you
miss it, that you think it can work between the two of you (but don't lie to
yourself ...), and that you want to recover it, then it is possible under
certain conditions.
Let me explain: some
coaches recommend I miss my ex girlfriend
Not telling someone to
get it back is not my favorite technique, but if that's what you want, then you
shouldn't call them and wait for them to contact you.
If you don't feel like
doing radio silence calculations, then call it.
In this case, you have 3
options: for I miss my ex girlfriend
1. Find a pretext to take
news and tater the ground, the air of nothing
2. Tell him you are calling
him because you are thinking about him, and see how he reacts
3. Tell him clearly that you
want to come back with him
The first option is the
most diverted and the last is the most direct.
Use the method that seems
most suitable for your story and the context of your breakup.
But whatever your
approach, if you want to get it back, don't do it with pity.
We don't come back with
someone who is pitiful, we come back with someone who makes us want!
I miss my ex girlfriend: should I get it back or forget it?
In fact, you are missing
it but you do not know if you should recover it or forget it.
You should not think
short term but long term.
Coming back with your ex
knowing full well that it won't work is not going to help you or your ex move forward
in life.
It may do you good in the
short term but will immerse you in a new rupture in the medium term.
I know it's hard to
resist. I have known this dilemma on several occasions and it took me
several breaks to understand that it was no longer necessary to return.
As I told you before, I
came back even though I knew that history was doomed to failure.
We know deep down that
history will not work. So I ask you: don't lie to yourself.
You should try to get
your ex back if you think you can really stick it together and think with
conviction.
But don't forget that it
takes two to make a relationship.
What does your ex think
about it? Does he love you?
Does he want to make a
living with you or is he an eternal undecided?
You should not look at
the situation from your point of view alone.
I have helped many people
who have all told me, "I'm sure it can work." Of course, we want
to believe it, we cling to all hopes.
We believe it can work
because we want it to work.
The problem is that we do
not take into account the other half of the couple, the feelings and the envy
of our ex.
You may be 200% fully in
your relationship, if your boyfriend or girlfriend does not love you or does
not want to be with you, it will not work.
You should be aware of
all of these when choosing to recover or forget your ex.
I hope that you will have
clearer ideas and that you will make the best decision for yourself but also
for your ex.
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